Friday, November 4, 2016

Day 53 & 54 - The One with the Sick Daddy


As most people are aware, Ellie is undeniably the star of #DaddyWrite.  Yeah, I may write but she gives me the material.  It's not like I could come up with some of this stuff on my own, right?  Unfortunately, I've missed posting over the past couple of days for some very dramatic reasons.  That being said, it's definitely a story that merits telling.  And no one really wants to hear about Ellie playing with her feet all day right?  Oh yeah, by the way, forgot to tell you, Ellie plays with her feet now.  You know, it's pretty cute and all, but must...stay...focused...


I've been dealing with some pretty intense headaches over the past couple of days.  In fact, on Wednesday night into Thursday morning, they actually kept me awake.  The only place to find relief was in a tub filled with warm water with a warm washrag draped across my face.  Or as I like to call it, the "Sensory Deprivator 4000".  It probably wasn't the safest way for me to sleep for an hour as Bethany was certain to mention when she found me there the next morning but I had to do what I had to do.  In addition to the headache, I also was suffering from some pretty bad nausea as well as achiness and wooziness.  Let me be the one to tell you; trying to pull yourself out of a bathtub with all of your might while clutching your puke bucket is not an easy task.
I feel your pain, cute panda baby...

As Bethany left for work (sadly she couldn't stay with me), I was luckily able to put Ellie down for a nap in her swing.  Basically eschewing all forms of sleep training for the day, desperation instead took over.  This child HAD to sleep, lest I surely die.  Ok, there might be some slight hyperbole there, but I really wanted her to sleep.   Luckily, I caught her in an easy mood where not only was she willing to sleep, but was willing to do so for four hours while I laid on the couch moaning in pain and clutching my head.  Once Ellie woke up around noon, I quickly got her bottle together and fed her before much crying could start.  After that, I took her upstairs to her changing table where things got hairy.  Every time, I glanced down to change her, intense wooziness would take over.  It was to the point where it took me fifteen minutes to change one diaper.  Ok, one side undone.  Sit down.  Another side done.  Sit down.  Diaper off.  Sit down.  Clean the baby.  Sit down.  Re-diaper baby.  Sit down.  Dress the baby.  And job done. 


At this point, I knew I wasn't capable of caring for Ellie by myself and that I needed to head to the doctor.  Doing the one thing I could do, I called my mom to drive down from Savannah to take care of Ellie.  I knew she'd do a great job and she was definitely overjoyed to help.  Once my mom arrived, I enthusiastically handed Ellie over and went to grab a shower and get dressed for the day.  Although I was always planning on sleeping, I instead decided to travel to our family doctor to get a checkup figuring I'd get a diagnosis of migraines or sinus infection or you know, hypochondria.  His response, "You could have a brain aneurysm or meningitis or Lyme disease."  Really, that's what we're going with doc?  "You need to head to the ER immediately to have tests run.  If it's an aneurysm, it could burst tonight and leave you dead in your sleep.  You're young and you want to be around for your wife and daughter."  At this point, I'm freaking out for good reason and call Bethany.  Like a good wife, she leaves work early to come home and go to the ER with me.
Can doctors catch hypochondria too?

Once Bethany and I reach the ER, the staff take me back to a room and give me a stylish backless gown to change into.
  Luckily I got to keep on my cargo shorts so at least some pride remained.  I'm still in some pain at this point but that would not remain for long.  The doctor comes in to see me and says while we're waiting on the tests, he's going to give me something for the pain, giving me the option for orally or through an IV.  I'm not going to have them stick me, except to draw blood, so I settle for the oral option, Vicodin.  Now, I'd never had Vicodin before so had no clue how it would affect but it happened very quickly.   Ten minutes later, I was smiling at everything around me.  From the crackers in my hand to the can of Shasta Twist on the table beside.  All were now funny to me for no apparent reason.  I even became very complimentary to my wife. 
Me: "You're really pretty."
Bethany: "Thank you. You're very happy right now, aren't you?"
Me: "Cause you're really pretty."
Bethany:  "Is that you or the medicine talking?"
Me:  "I think it's me cause you're really pretty."

That conversation went back and forth about six more times before the CT Scan specialist came to collect me for my CT Scan.  Bethany asked if she could come but was denied because there was no waiting room but I should be back in fifteen minutes or so.  As they pushed me through the hospital on the gurney, I remember strongly having to fight certain urges.  Like the urge to pretend I'm a race car driver.  Seriously, with every fiber of my being, I was trying not to put my hands up on a pretend steering wheel.  So instead, I settled for working the imaginary peddles with my feet.  Gas, brake for the corner, gas for the long straightaway.  Once, we arrived in the CT Scan room, I remember the technician asking why they were scanning.  For the life of me, I couldn't remember the proper wording so just began rambling before finally ending with, "They gave me Vicodin."  With that, the technician began the CT Scan.
How I felt racing around the corners on my gurney...

After being wheeled back to the room, I happily greeted Bethany since I thought I'd been gone for hours.  Shortly thereafter, the ER doctor came back in and stated that I was being released as there was nothing wrong with any of my scans.  Also, adding that he was very certain that I did not have meningitis and would not be subjecting me to a spinal tap.  Yay, although I was thinking about the movie, "This is Spinal Tap" and became a little sad.  During the thirty minutes it took to process my release, Bethany and I began talking about the things that needed to be done at home and centered in on laundry.  I became very convinced of my need to do the laundry that night and thought she was telling me I didn't know how.  Then, I proceeded to give her a six minute explanation of how to use the washer and dryer in very detailed terms.  Once the doctor finally returned (and gave me a prescription for Vicodin), Bethany and I left the hospital and headed for home. 

Unfortunately, Bethany doesn't think that I should really get the prescription filled.  Something about the nurse realizing how I was essentially stoned on it and I probably shouldn't take care of a baby with it in my system.  What?  Poppycock I say.  #DaddyWrite


P.S.  I'm fine now. 

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