Day 1,253 - Tasty Donuts, Kindergarten Blues, and Grumpy Little Brothers

It can be hard to be a little brother. I can't confirm that myself because of the whole only child thing. However, from what I've observed over the years, it can be rather difficult. I mean, Bethany's younger brother is 32 years old and the family still refers to him as "The Boy" (although there was a slight push recently to start calling him "The Fellow"). For Ethan, the reminder that he's the younger brother can come at any time and when it does, well, he might just become grumpy!

For Ethan, his most recent bout of little brother, FOMO-induced grumpiness occurred last Friday as we headed to Ellie's school for Breakfast with Buddies. In addition to the obvious breakfast of a donut and milk, Breakfast with Buddies essentially serves as a student-led parent-teacher conference. For Ellie, Breakfast with Buddies was especially exciting as Bethany was actually able to be in attendance due to a day off work!

When the four of us arrived at Fox Hill, the first thing we did was head to Ellie's classroom. The second we got there, Ellie began to excitedly show us around her classroom. The first thing we got to see was her table. There, Ellie shared her self-assessment with us. It was actually pretty interesting because Ellie was able to pick and choose what she wanted to improve at moving forward. She included being able to write 1-20 perfectly, improving at addition and subtraction, and writing better sentences. While it seems like she's doing just fine at all of those things, I was definitely proud of her for highlighting things she wants to do better (literally and figuratively). 

 

While Ellie was excitedly conducting her student-led conference with Bethany, I tried to keep up with Ethan who was happily pinballing around the room. At one point, he found himself in the classroom library where he set out to find any book that he recognized from home. For the record, he did a great job doing just that. We really enjoyed the excitement he showed upon finding one of his favorite books, "Last Stop on Market Street". Ethan also spent time practicing identifying his ABCs (to the relative amazement of Ellie's teacher) and working as a seat-tester by sitting in every seat he could find in the classroom.

When the time came for us to leave, Ethan became slightly agitated as he wanted to know where his seat in the classroom was. You see, at some point during the morning, Ethan became convinced that he was starting Kindergarten on this day. While he didn't fight our declaration that it was time to leave, he was certain to spend the rest of the morning informing us that he was grumpy. He even proudly proclaimed it to the lady working in the Recorder of Deeds office in the Clay County courthouse. That's clearly something that she needed to know, right?

Lucky for us, once we got home, Ethan seemed to forget about his grumpiness and instead gave himself over to the healing powers of Paw Patrol. Convenient since Marshall was wearing his paramedic gear instead of his fireman's suit in the episode.  

Oh wow, that was a really bad joke. Please don't judge me too harshly for that.

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Day 1,247 - Spring Break, Part II!!!

As I said in my last blog post, our Spring Break wasn't all about staying at home in Kansas City. After all, that wouldn't have been all that exciting after the first day or two. Instead, we found ourselves wandering south towards Tulsa, OK for a Spring Break adventure!

Now, I know that when people think of hot Spring Break destinations, they're normally thinking Florida or perhaps some other tropical destination. Rarely does Tulsa come up as the destination of choice. Not that there's anything wrong with Tulsa; it's just hardly seen as a tourist destination. However, it just so happens that there is one thing in particular there that really appeals to families: the Gathering Place.

The Gathering Place is a 66.5 acre park along the Arkansas River in Tulsa, Ok. And yes, I did steal that description directly from Wikipedia. However, this park isn't just any park. It's an awesome park! The highlight, and the main reason for us going, had to be the Adventure Playground. In fact, our trip to The Gathering Place was so anticipated that it was actually the very first thing we chose to do once we arrived in Tulsa (not including stopping by our VRBO and McCallister's Deli for a quick lunch).

Once we arrived, I was immediately taken aback by the size of the structures Ellie and Ethan set out to conquer. I can only describe it as a series of tree houses/forts connected by rope bridges and cargo nets leading from one structure to another. Actually, that's a fairly apt description of what I was looking at. While Bethany and I expected Ethan to be the one deterred by the somewhat insane height of everything, instead it was Ellie. Although, for the record, I think she was just slightly overwhelmed by the mass of humanity closing in on her. Ethan made it his personal goal to conquer the cargo nets. In fact, he spent probably ten minutes traversing a set of three cargo nets that were probably a good twenty five feet in the air.

It didn't take long for Ellie's and Ethan's cousins and grandparents to join us at the Adventure Playground for some, dare I say, adventure. In fact, the four of them spent practically the entire afternoon climbing and clambering over every structure they could find. For the record, my favorite thing there had to be the slides built into the sides of some hills. I even made a few trips down those myself! After we finished up our afternoon at The Gathering Place, we retired back to our VRBO for a dinner of BBQ meats and sides.

The next day was a little unfortunate due to the fact that most of our original plans had been throttled due to nasty weather. We had been planning all along on spending Friday at the Gathering Place as well. However, high winds and freezing temperatures don't really make for a fun day of outdoor play. Instead, we changed gears and  headed to the Tulsa Air and Space Museum. It honestly made for a super fun morning. Not only were there plenty of interactive exhibits to play with but it was also cool to learn all about the history of aviation. There were actually planes that spanned basically the entire history of aeronautics! There was also a ton of cool stuff about space exploration including an area where we could watch a video of an actual NASA rocket launch!

After we finished up at the Air and Space Museum, we headed back to our VRBO for afternoon naps and quiet times before grilling out for dinner that night. That was honestly a bit of an adventure as I had never actually grilled on charcoal before. It was also a bit of adventure finding a place that sold lighter fluid. No worries though as I finally found some at the sketchy gas station with bars on the windows and a Plexiglas box around the cashier who nearly had her face pierced shut. She was super nice though!

The next morning went pretty quick. While the kids spent time playing outside (Ellie and her cousin, Elbert, went on a "nature" hike with Bethany's mom while Ethan played in the garage and driveway with Bethany's dad and his cousin, Edmund), I mostly helped get all of our things packed and ready to go for the trip home. There was one additional stop we had to make before we could head home though: THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE!

While I know it sounds impressive to say we were at the Center of the Universe, it's not actually the literal center of the universe. Instead, it's this really cool area in downtown Tulsa where you stand and anything you say is amplified back to you at a louder volume. While Ethan was probably a little underwhelmed, Ellie, Bethany, and I found it to be pretty cool! Ellie and I even made one additional trip back to the circle after getting in the car.

Actually, did I say that was the last stop? Well, I lied. Our last stop of the trip was arguably the most important thing we could ever hope to see. That's right folks, after a short detour down Route 66, we found ourselves at the majestic Blue Whale of Catoosa! Of course, we had to get out and take a short walk through the whale. I even got my picture taken in front of it! Clearly the most important part of our trip, right?

Ok, wow, I wrote a lot about a short three day vacation. However, there was a lot crammed into those three days. No worries though. Now anyone who reads this can feel like they visited Tulsa (not to mention the majestic Blue Whale of Catoosa!).

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Day 1,242 - Spring Break!!!

Last week was Spring Break. Therefore, last week was fun. There's not really any other way to put it. Leading up to Spring Break though, I probably wouldn't have had that same sentiment. After all, Ellie and I tend to butt heads a little bit when we spend too much time around each other these days and multiple days of me being alone with both kids just sounds like a recipe for failure. However, I think the difference is that I'm trying (key word there is trying) to be more understanding of her emotions and feelings as well as being cognizant of my own. Part of that is knowing when I need to walk away and take a break or maybe even scream into a pillow for old times' sake. 

Of course, Spring Break isn't all about sitting around the house and trying not to get frustrated at my children. It's about having adventures AND fun! Early on in our Spring Break, that was mostly accomplished through time playing outside. In fact, it was during one of those outside times when I found myself being really impressed by Ellie's growth and maturation. While she normally just goes along with the flow of whatever we're doing when playing outside, on Sunday, she took real initiative. She asked if it would be alright if she asked her friend from school, Nathaly, who lives right down the street, to play with her. I told Ellie that I would walk down to Nathaly's house with her but that I would like Ellie to march up the steps and ring the doorbell herself. To my great surprise, that's exactly what Ellie did and the two spent the entire afternoon playing outside together. Nathaly even came over to our house and helped Ellie make a personal pizza for dinner!

On Monday, our adventure required a little bit more effort as we had to hop in a car and drive to St. Joseph to play at Fun Run. While the kids understandably got a little antsy during the drive, it was pretty much worth it to them once we got to Fun Run and Ellie and Ethan spent over two hours exploring every single inch of the jungle gyms and bounce houses contained within. One of my favorite moments though was watching Ellie put her gymnastics training to good use on the air bag. She accomplished this by flipping down the length of the airbag, landing on her back each time. It was actually quite a feat to behold. Ethan, for his part, wasn't going to be left out of the gymnastics routine and responded by nailing a series of picture-perfect somersaults. 

On Tuesday, there wasn't really much excitement to be had. There was a library trip in the morning and some time playing outside in the afternoon but really nothing to write home about. Wednesday was another story though. In the morning, we all (including Bethany) had dentist visits (Yay, no cavities!) followed by a short sojourn to the Zona Rosa park. After that, we returned home for lunch and quiet times before making a park trip in the afternoon. What was cool about our park trip is that Ethan rode his bike over a mile and a half round trip on our journey without issue! Once we got home, we settled in for some family play time in the driveway when who should come calling but Nathaly. As a result, Ellie and Nathaly spent most of the afternoon playing together again and just enjoying being kids.

Side note, it's actually really cool that Ellie has a friend in the neighborhood from school that she can enjoy playing with and spending time. However, Ethan is definitely experiencing a slight jealousy streak when it comes to Nathaly. For his entire life, Ethan has pretty much had Ellie's exclusive attention as her best friend and exclusive playmate. Now that she's playing with Nathaly though, he's definitely vocal about missing his sister and wanting to play too. No worries as I know that situation will work itself out at some point.

From Thursday to Saturday, we actually traveled to Tulsa to meet Bethany's family for a Spring Break trip. There's a lot of stuff to write about from that experience though so I'll leave that for another day.

On Sunday though, I may have had my favorite experience with Ellie of her entire Spring Break! What was that experience you may ask? Just a simple trip to the tennis courts at the apartments across the street to practice hitting. While we hadn't actually played tennis in a while (mostly because of the whole winter thing), I was shocked at how well Ellie did. After a relatively short lesson reminding her of the mechanics of swinging her racket, she was smacking balls over the net, one right after the other. Not only that but she was hitting them well AND keeping them in bounds! 

I absolutely love the fact that I'm getting to help Ellie learn how to play a sport that I love and hopefully she'll end up being much better than me at it. Of course though, I'll settle for just having a buddy to play with on a regular basis. That's a pretty good thing too! #DaddyWrite

Day 1,238 - I'm (Kind Of) a "Virtual" Teacher

Well, it's snowing. It's March 10th and it's snowing again. Honestly, I kind of thought that the snow might be done for the year after Monday. Alas, all it takes is a glance out the window to know that I was mistaken. It's not a huge deal though. I just now have the job title of "Teacher" in addition to being a stay-at-home parent. Actually, I'm really not a teacher but I'm definitely experiencing a little bit of what it must be like since Ellie is learning virtually today.

Despite my sarcastic tone, I'm actually quite intrigued by the virtual learning aspect of this week. I say week because we experienced virtual learning on Monday, today, and will likely do so tomorrow. It's really not that bad though. "School" begins for Ellie at 9:00 am any day that virtual learning is required. In case you're wondering, that's the exact same time that her school normally starts.

The first order of business is to hop on a Zoom call with her class so that the teacher can conduct a short lesson for the kids before giving them some assignments for the next hour. There are additional calls at 10:00 and 11:00 before traditional learning time ends at noon. While I don't really have to be around for these calls, I kind of enjoy sitting off camera for two reasons. Number one, it allows me to be familiar with the lesson plan so I can help Ellie with her assignments if need be. Second, I love getting to see her classmates and put a face to the name. For example, on Monday, I got to see one boy from Ellie's class eat a banana extremely slowly. I also got to see a girl stroke her cat much as a Bond villain would so...that's...cool.

 

Ellie's lessons revolve around reading, writing, and math with her having an assignment of some kind to complete after the lesson. After the assignment is done, Ellie's teacher then instructed her students to play various games on their iPad until their next Zoom call. While I had Ellie follow the teacher's instructions to the letter on Monday, I thought those instructions resulted in way too much iPad time for my liking. Therefore, I switched things up a little today. Outside of math time, I had Ellie engage in reading from books with her extra time instead of playing learning games on the iPad. 

Ellie was also assigned a self-portrait for art class. Not too shabby if I do say so myself.

I have to say that I've noticed a huge improvement in her behavior as the day has gone on. On Monday afternoon, Ellie was pretty much insane from all of the iPad time. Today, she's her normal sweet self and is significantly more sane. In fact, she's already asking to play a game of Monopoly Junior with me in lieu of spending time on her iPad. I'm mostly OK with that except for the fact that the girl is nigh unbeatable at Monopoly Junior. In fact, I have yet to beat her in all of the rounds we play. Maybe that's a sign that I should pick a different princess. Wait, did I mention that it's the Disney Princess edition of Monopoly Junior? That seems pertinent. 

BTW, in case you're wondering, I pick Mulan each time we play. Maybe this is a mean thing to say but due to her battle-hardened experiences in the Chinese Army, I figure she's the most manly of all the Disney Princesses. Actually, that may have been slightly mean.

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Day 1,233 - The One With "Paddington" and a Car Dealership

Whenever I look back on the days of having just one kid, there are certainly things I miss. For one thing, the amount of noise in my house was much lower. For another, I didn't have requests for my attention during every second of every day of every year and so on and so forth. However, one of the things I missed the most was just being able to run and do an errand without it being a massive inconvenience. 

I realize that it is possible to do errands with two kids in tow. However, it's definitely a lot more work and nowhere near as fun as doing so with one kid. Also, it needs to be said that Ethan is now reaching an age where it's much easier to take him along when there are certain things that need to be done. After all, no one wants to take a two-year-old to a doctor's appointment with them. Or the accountant's office. Or the service department of your local Chevrolet dealer. It's actually that last one that I want to talk about.

For the longest time, I've been very stringent about scheduling service visits on our Traverse for Saturday mornings. That way Bethany would be home from work and I wouldn't have a kid along. Also, it would provide me with a nice little quiet time all to myself with that guy who brings his 100 pound Labrador to the dealership with him. If the weather's nice enough, I could even wander to Subway for a breakfast sandwich! For my most recent service visit though, I decided to break from tradition and schedule the appointment for a school day right after dropping Ellie off at school. That means that Ethan would be along for the ride!

Now, as any halfway apt parent would, I packed plenty of things to keep my child busy. Our backpack had about five books in it, a couple of granola bars, and a bottle of water all for Ethan's enjoyment. Honestly, I figured the appointment would take an hour as most and worst-case scenario, I could always tune the television in the waiting area to cartoons. After all, three-year-olds love cartoons!

The first hour went well enough. Ethan started off by looking through all of his books on his own at the kid-sized table in the corner of the waiting room. Then, he snarfed down a granola bar before taking a big swig out of his water bottle. After that, he brought me his stack of books to read to him. Once we finished the books though, I was a little nervous. You see, in a rare experience for the small-town dealership we frequent, the waiting room was absolutely full of people, some of whom were very interested in what the ladies on The View had to say. In order to keep Ethan calm (and myself sane), I knew I had to find something to entertain the little man. Enter Netflix!

Well, that's in Spanish...

After perusing Netflix for a minute or so, I found that one of our kids' favorite movies was now available for streaming. That movie is "Paddington". They seriously cannot get enough of that little bear from Peru...who came to be with me and you (as the song goes). For the most part, Ethan happily watched his movie in silence. However, at about the thirty minute mark, there is a scene where Paddington uses the bathroom at the Brown family's house. This is where things get interesting. You should probably watch the clip if you're unfamiliar with the film.

At the very sight of Paddington shoving toothbrushes in his ears, Ethan erupted in deep belly laughs. The laughs continued throughout the entire scene of Paddington wrecking the Browns' bathroom. Before long, I looked around the waiting room and saw several people hiding their faces as they laughed at Ethan's displays of joy. One woman was laughing so hard at Ethan's relentless laughing that she actually had to get up and leave the waiting area to calm herself. Unfortunately for Ethan, he didn't get to enjoy much more of his movie as the service advisor came to tell us that our car was ready.

Honestly, I probably should have seen Ethan's reaction to "Paddington" coming. For one thing, he's had that reaction every time that he's ever watched the movie. Even I think it's hilarious! For some reason, I just assumed that the little man would be too shy to laugh like that in a public setting. It serves me right though for underestimating his extroverted nature. Regardless, it's a fun memory that I will hold onto for a long time to come! #DaddyWrite

Ethan is Paddington!

Day 1,225 - Ice Ice (Skating) Baby

Today is a sad day. The Olympics are over. After three weeks of jaw-dropping athletic feats in search of shiny gold medals, we are now left in a "sporting void" since baseball probably won't be a thing this year. However, even though the Olympics are over, that doesn't mean that we can't engage in our own pursuit of Olympics-inspired fun. That's exactly what we did on Friday as Ellie, Ethan, and I went ice skating for the very first time.

I know that it seems a little hard to believe but I've never actually been ice skating once in my entire life. In fact, I've probably only been on roller skates two or three times. Therefore, I had two goals when it came to ice skating. Goal number 1 was to do my best Kamila Valieva impression (without the doping) and successfully nail a quad rotation. Goal number 2 (which was slightly more realistic) was to not break anything.

I'm going to look so majestic doing my quad.

 

Our biggest reason for checking out ice skating was that one of our local rinks, the Line Creek Community Center, has "home school" prices in effect each Friday. Therefore, the price for the kids and I with skate rental came out to $8 for an hour and a half of skating. Actually, it ended up being just an hour of skating due to a clothing-induced meltdown from Ellie. We won't talk about that right now though.

Once we arrived at the Community Center and we all had our skates on, it was time to hit the ice. Well, hopefully we wouldn't be hitting the ice but you get my drift. The kids started out cautiously enough with each selecting a kid-sized walker to aid them in their acclimation to ice skating. As for myself, surely my natural athletic ability would be enough to allow me to quickly adapt to the ice. Spoiler alert, it wasn't. I quickly left the rink, clinging to the walls the entire way, and grabbed an adult-sized walker to aid in my quest. Seriously, it had wheels and everything.

Me and my walker. I named it Judy. Actually I didn't do that but now wish I would have.

Obviously, I wasn't going to be much help to the kids in teaching them to ice skate. Lucky for them, our friends, the Loschs, happened to be at the rink that day too. Nathan, who grew up in Canada, took it upon himself to start coaching up Ellie. After about 15 minutes on the ice, Ellie parked her walker and began skating around the ice all by herself. Now, there were plenty of falls on Ellie's part (and one painful looking face plant) but she honestly did an awesome job!

As for Ethan and I, the results weren't nearly as amazing as Ellie's. Ethan never actually graduated from his walker to skating unaided. However, he had a good time clumsily wandering around the ice. As for me, I also never strayed far from my walker. I did reach a point though where I was comfortable not putting all of my weight on the walker and instead relying on it only if I started to fall. I even found the courage to take all of my weight off the walker and snap pictures of the kids as they embarked on the first steps of an extremely likely brother-sister Olympic figure skating medal run. 

Even though no one got hurt or anything, I do have one regret from the day. I never was able to nail my quad rotation. That being said, once I complete my rigorous doping regiment, there will be nothing to stop me from doing so! #DaddyWrite

Day 1,220 - Happy Birthday, Ethan!

I constantly find myself amazed at the passage of time. February marks "Birthday season" in House Holt with Bethany (2-13), Ethan (2-12), and myself (2-1) all having birthdays in a two-week span. While I personally don't find myself feeling any older, the rapid growth of Ethan is very evident especially when one compares a picture from his second birthday to one from his third birthday. Of course, a birthday isn't just for obsessively thinking about what's changed. It's also for celebrating and having fun and that's exactly what we did for Ethan's birthday!

Since Ethan was undeniably aware of his birthday this year, Bethany and I really wanted to make it special for the little man. His day started around 6:30 with a fairly typical breakfast of Honey Bunches of Oats. However, as soon as he was done with breakfast, the fun began as he was allowed to open his birthday gift from us.

For the past couple of years, Ethan has had a gray Royals hat that has been a consistent part of his wardrobe. However, the day finally came for him to outgrow it this year. That didn't stop him from still attempting to wear said hat but it did cause him to look absolutely ludicrous in doing so. Therefore, we decided that the time had come to buy him a new Royals hat. For the record, I found it incredibly difficult to decide on the perfect hat for Ethan since I knew it would be worn so frequently. We ultimately decided on another gray cap with the "KC" logo in blue underneath a golden crown logo. Ethan loved it and immediately put it on his head where it would remain for most of the day to come.

Of course, a little boy deserves more than a new cap for his special day. He also deserves his favorite meal of fried rice with an ice cream sundae bar for dessert. Yes, I know that cake is the traditional birthday dessert of choice. However, Ethan really, really, really likes ice cream so we went that route instead. It also helped that we got to partake in some awesome Spider-Man-themed cupcakes the day before while celebrating with my parents and grandma.

Ethan enjoying some ice cream with Papa Fred!

After lunch, it was time for Ethan to take a short nap before the main event of his birthday, a trip to the circus! Neither Bethany or myself had actually been to a circus since we were kids. In fact, we weren't even 100% certain that there still were circuses. Enter the Carden Circus. I first heard about the Carden Circus via a coupon giveaway on our local Buy Nothing page. Once we realized that the circus would actually take place on Ethan's birthday, we knew that we definitely wanted to attend!

In case you're wondering, the Carden Circus is actually a legitimate three-ring circus of old. There were animal acts including horses, camels, dogs, cats, and elephants (and inexplicable men in bear costumes). There were also danger acts including tightrope walkers, aerialist displays, a human cannonball, and motorcycle acts. While it took Ethan a bit to settle down due to the excitement he was feeling, once he did so, he was absolutely engrossed in everything there was to see. In fact, two days later, he's still talking about the motorcycles and "dancing girls". For the record, "dancing girls" is referring to the aerialists; I know how that sounds.

 

Even though Ethan is growing up super fast, I love the fact that our family is continuing to build memories together that will hopefully last for years to come. In fact, Ethan's personality has really flourished over the past year between his affinity for all things Kansas City Chiefs to his continued love for cows and farming and his undeniable friendship with Ellie. I'm excited to see what the next year will bring when the time comes to snap another picture in the big brown chair in a little under 12 months from now.