Tuesday, June 23, 2020

Day 841 - "Hair" Today, Gone Tomorrow


Milestones tend to vary between children. 

For example, Ellie still struggles with nighttime potty training whereas her cousin has been 100% potty trained for at least a year. One can also consider how at Ethan's age, Ellie was a regular chatterbox with a pretty wide vocabulary. That doesn't mean that Ethan is slow by any means. It just means that Ellie surpassed him in that area. Ethan, however, began to walk and crawl long before his older sister did.

Of course, there is one major milestone that is always going to be different between boys and girls. The one to which I am referring is the first haircut. For Ellie, she's still waiting on that day to arrive. For Ethan though, that day finally arrived ten days ago on June 13. Sorry that I'm just now getting around to writing about it.

For the longest time, Bethany and I were extremely hesitant to cut Ethan's locks. For one thing, it was pretty cute to see the way they flowed all over the back of his head. They simultaneously had the ability to make us both laugh and say "Awww!" Unfortunately, they were becoming a nuisance to the little man as the way the curls stuck out from the side of his head made him look like some kind of mad scientist. They also made it so Ethan's hair was constantly a sweaty mess in the hot summer temperatures. Taking all of those things into account, Bethany and I finally decided the time had come for Ethan to get his first haircut. However, a simple trip to the barber wouldn't be in store for young Ethan. Instead, we were going to cut his hair ourselves!


Here's the point of the story where you can stop worrying about us using a sharp pair of Fiskars scissors on our baby's hair as that didn't happen. After all, we didn't want him to lose an ear or anything. Instead, we purchased a set of Wahl hair clippers complete with guards to keep us from cutting too short. Our reason for going this route was simple. For at least the next five or six years, Ethan won't care what his hair looks like at all. Therefore, as long as we can competently cut it and make it look nice, everything should be fine.


Once the big day arrived, we stripped Ethan's shirt off and placed him in a Bumpo seat sitting on one of our kitchen chairs. We also took a set of pictures so that we could remember both the before and after looks. After snapping the largest guard onto the clippers, I flipped on the unit and held it out for Ethan to touch and get accustomed to. For his part, he really didn't care anything about the clippers as he was much more interested in the cartoons we had pulled up on the iPad to distract him with. 

Finally, the time had come. I gently lifted up the back curls and proceeded to run the clippers through the locks. As they fell to the ground, one-by-one, I was amazed first by just how much hair there was on our floor. Secondly, I was amazed by how cute the little man looked. If anything, his long hair had looked worse than we realized. 

As I finished up Ethan's first haircut, Bethany and I were in agreement that he looked great. There was only one thing left to do and that was to commemorate the moment. First we snapped a pair of after shots. Then, the final step was to pick up some of the largest curls of hair to place in a Ziploc bag with the date on the front for safe keeping. After all, the nostalgic in me wants to be able to remember everything about our son's first haircut and look back and smile. Cute, right? #DaddyWrite


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